The Key to Success

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The key to have a successful live is to know how to have self-control and how to wait for delayed gratification? I think you do need to have self-control in your life because if you can’t control how you act how will you be able to sit and get your work done when all you want to do is go out and have fun? If you do not have self-control you will not have very much success in your life. You would not know how to stop and work on one thing and do it to the best of your ability, you would be going from one thing to the next one without thinking if you did it right. You need to know how to balance out everything that is going on in your life and what need to be done first, what can wait and what you should do to get yourself the furthest.

            If you can’t have delayed gratification in your life and you need someone to tell you that you have done great you will not make it far. You need to know how to work hard and not always was get the reward for it the moment you are done. If you work hard and now you will get the credit for your work soon because you did a great job on it. If you do not it is shown that the kid form the marshmallow experiment who could not wait “the children who rang the bell quickly, seemed more likely to have behavioral problems, both in school and at home.”  You need to have a good balance with self-control and delayed gratification to have the best things happen to you in life so you can work hard and know that you did great and that you have control over everything that is going on in your life.

http://www.newyorker.com/reporting/2009/05/18/090518fa_fact_lehrer